have i been making mistakes too long part 7

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i think it may be time to set your boundaries. She doesnt want to talk about it or do anything because she is cake eating.

I hope some vets can chime here. I know there are two options. One you could push things forward yourself to kind of force things to happen, but this is also against what we want in the end. Very confusing, but i do know this. You can not continue to live the way you are. It is not healthy for you or your kids. You will create a lot of issues for all involved until something really bad happens.

I know the standard advice is ignore what she does and GAl etc...but the in house is so hard to do that.