WAS or what (3)

[roist]

Tonight time permitting I will print off Michelle's letter to WAS in an EA, plus some other stuff about EA's. I hesitate but may include all or part of Michelle's first chapter in DR. Michelle advises not to argue or rage on about a possible EA. Just give the info and let it go.

I have no imminent plan to give this to my W, as I am not sure it is a true EA and am fairly sure (without being nieve) nothing will develope. He could be a well meaning friend trying to help he with her terrible M! But I want to be prepared to act if a situation presents itself warranting action.

I am well aware and believe that OM (even just inappropriate friend) is not the teal issue. That is me and W.

The reason for this post is to get fellow DB ers viewon the merits of doing nothing compared to taking action. I hesitated starting a thread just for people to discuss this, but in the end I preferred to try keep any advice/comments specific to my situation. I see the merits of to gh love approach esp about respect. Doing nothing and letting W go through her "fog" at her own rate while working on me, is also logical.