in house seperation (3)

[vise82]

Hey isit,

With your wife going out once a month to party is not too bad. But the times coming home seem very late, especially if you have kids.

Goals with me are lacking. I do need to work on them. I am doing better on 180s. Communication was bad for m. not answering my phone, not replying to text, I didn't even activate my cell messaging.

Now its activated, I do reply to texts but after work only.
The other issue was me not putting things ways after she asked me to. I do that stuff now with out being asked. I used to be unsure taking both kids out to anywhere. now I take then too all sorts of places. I used to wait for my W to plan things, now I am looking for thing to do for me and the boys, if W come ok, if not we go with out her.

The Other stuff is R stuff. She wanted more Non sexual touching, cuddling, I was too focused on sex. She wanted me to stand up for her and defend her more against my family ( they don't like her) Its still an issue even though I don't talk to my family anymore(two years now).

My Wife has old friend that is D and is giving my W bad advise, she is the one that pushed my W to take the kids out of the house and call the cops on me. Just feeding my W bad info, down the road to D, where she is at. My W just feed into it, giving her lies about me fueling the D machine they are both on.

But when my W talks to her other friends it not the same stuff they talk about. the other friends get a different story or version of truths.