My W typically will stay out to 4am if she is with a particular GF who parties hard - she is D as well and went through a hellish D with a H who was an a**hole - smoking pot and watching porn in the house, etc. There was no OM/OW in that D. W goes out with her once a month typically to make up the numbers as her GF is single.
How you doing with your goals? and 180s?
All my convos with W are nice, pleasant, even funny at times, almost like the BD never occurred. S8 likes to play family card games before bedtime - in the past I let W do all bedtime duties, now I take part. Its usually on W's bed and its fun.
Each day is an opportunity ...onwards and upwards
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16