To Pursue or Not #2

[Ontheup]

I cant see that there is anything to save here?

Your wife has been with 3 different men and by all accounts has no intention of ever coming back to you.

I would just keep moving forward with your life. She wanted out, she has that now so surely she should be happy.
Over time it gets easier and easier and you think about the situation les and less.

Ad far as any interaction with her I would just keep it about the children and finances. There really is nothing else to talk about.