Elly, I'm glad you posted. The stress is there and we need to get it out.
Have you been able to keep up with expertise lately...I understand that you have a ton going on, but that may really help with dealing with the stresses of all of this.
I am glad u r able to sleep, that is a huge advantage you hold over most on this site.
One day at a time. You will take one step forward. You've been preparing for this for a long time.
Have you been going out for some u time, you need it now more than ever Treating yourself like you deserve to be.
As for custody, I don't have any words other than this...I've seen your h stepping up more for your son over last 6 months which is good, right. He is willing to fight for him, I see that as a positive for your son. It may be not optimal for you, but where custody is concerned...what is best for son is most importsnt. I hope husbands motives are genuine in all of this...if so that is a good thing. Maybe I am seeing it through my eyes where I would not accept any sort of dissolution order with anything less than 50/50 split on kids.
