Interesting conversation this evening. My W wanted her dad to come over Wednesday night and stay until Sunday. Keep in mine that she has only known him for two or three months now. For almost each week her dad has been spending the night on Friday and Saturday. I told my W that I don't mind her dad coming over and staying, but he is not going to stay at the house alone while everyone is at work. She got offended and asked me why. I told her that I was just being cautious and that at the end of the day, we've only known her dad for a few months and that it takes time to build trust. She responded that her dad would never hurt us and I told her that she if probably right but that I am just looking out for the family. She then broke out in tears and told me to leave her alone for the rest of her night.
I don't think I was unreasonable but I did the right thing and left her alone/gave her the space she wanted without any protest. I am sure she will probably call her dad or text OM for comfort - grrh.
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