Not sure what you mean. His assertion is that conflict will lead to progress. But all we do is rehash. He recriminates things from the very beginning of the marriage. I sometimes just validate. Sometimes he pushes me so much (waking me up at various times in the night to hash things out) I do get bad or go backwards...
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
