ive always been a nice guy and im assuming 180 is to be an as$%ho#% , i might be wrong.
Yes, 100% wrong. Please do not try anymore 180s regarding bring a nice guy until you read both books. Taking the techniques from the site (or what you think they are) without reading the book first is going to backfire on you.
And for the future, being an [censored] will never be the right choice, never.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be