Guys it was a serious question. I am not aasking because i know the answer. Ive always wanted to take care of her. So my instinct is to pay for it. But than i read threads that i should go dark etc , and do a 180. well the 180 would be not to pay for her since she has decided to leave. I guess im just confused from the whole 180, ive always been a nice guy and im assuming 180 is to be an as$%ho#% , i might be wrong.
My goal is not to chase her. Work on me , pray every day and talk to God for guidance. My goal is to be the best dad , im reading a book about being a dad and how little things count. I cant wait to see my daughters. I am really working on how to respond to her text or talks when ever the situation is confronted and not answer by defending myself.
