Whatever you do maintain your detachment, something may happen, something may not, it's exactly the same regardless.
This is a time to be strong in your commitment to DBing, no backslides, what you've done before hasn't worked, what you are doing now you believe is so stick with it, no resorting back to old pre-BD days assuming all is fixed.
You both seem to be on good paths and not just because your R's have changed but because you both have spirit and that's really exciting to be around.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?