I thought I was stronger and had come to peace that my family unit and relationship with wife was done. Going forward it was just my boys and I in our relationship as Father and Sons.
We went to mediation last week and I couldn't believe in the lies she made. She even requested separate talks with mediator rather than facing me with what she was going to present as her cause in the custody.
Well Halloween rolled around and it was her weekend and she didn't want me to participate with their trick or treating even though they have asked her for weeks. My boys are young (9,6,2). It didn't matter to her.
I honestly think she is trying to hurt me in whatever way she can and I don't know how a woman that says she loves me can now do an about face like that. I know her mother has a lot to do with this anger and aggressive hurt him as much as you can attitude.
I even try to comfort her during the mediation and said everything is going to be ok thinking that maybe kindness could make us go forward in as much peace as possible.
Today I was asking her about how my boys are and how things are and she says Great! So I ask even without me? No response. I she said yes, then I'd be happy for her.
I don't think she is happy, maybe because I'm not happy without them. I don't like the woman she has become and it's ugly. She wanted out and she has that, why doesn't she want to do what's best for our boys and let go of any anger. I have asked her to but she seems intent on being hurtful and moving on without me in her life.
Anyway, I want to stop and move on but I just can't.
