man im so lost , i feel like ive done everything wrong , everyone keeps telling im shooting myself in my foot. Im actually scared , ive made it worst now. Why do i let my emotions drive me.

Me:26 WW:26
RELATIONSHIP - 5 YRS
MARRIED-1YR 11months
BD:9/14/2015
divorce filed 1/6/15
DAUGHTER- 3YRS
DAUGHTER - 1yr