Ok the other part was unacceptable , i should have just kept that to myself. yes it does come out as manipulation. I am just asking if i did right by telling her to take me to court? What would have you guys done? Would you guys just agree to her conditions and just sign the divorce and be done with it? I do read other threads almost every day. I am getting my books this weekend. I still have a lot to work as i keep reading everyones comments