I would not let someone treat me like I am there second choice. You need to make it known. please read what Azz is saying.

If it was me I would do things for my kids but She would know I am backing off until OM and A is over.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15