no , not at all vapo. I would and never have cursed at her. I understand i can still be a dick. But I just told her this " I dont believe in divorce, but i am not stopping you from getting the divorce but you will have to take me to court. Right now you are treating me like a disposable object and just throwing me to the trash. Again i am not stopping you with your divorce, but i dont trust you now. since you took my girls away for 7 weeks and i still havent seen them". Am i being uncivilized because im not giving in to her request like Ive always had.?