Julie I have a secret fantasy that H will come back to me, we will be happy for the next 10 years and then once all of my kids are out of the house I am going to break his heart. Of course I would not do that, but it is an interesting fantasy. And I have learned from this forum that even grown children are affected by their parents problems, so I guess I am stuck with the fantasy, at least until my reality improves.
H's MLC is no fun at all- consists mostly of him sleeping a lot, working too much, and crying to his parents and even to ow about his terrible life. If I was going to blow it all up I'd at least be having a great time. I am glad that he isn't having fun though, don't get me wrong! I think if he was I'd D him and move on, but I see how much he is suffering.
