Angel - You can't "get" your wife back. She has to decide that she WANTS to come back. So, instead of plotting and scheming and watching, actively work on yourself.
You say you've changed, but it's only been like 6 weeks. This is a many months/years process. She didn't decide to leave in a day. She won't come back in a day either.
Make continuous, sustained changes in yourself. To me, you sound like the same person that arrived here in September.
