I really dont know how to get my wife back. Because i have been working on myself. I have let go of my past and i promised i would never make them feel neglected. She is done with the marriage. She doesnt care whether i changed or not. She is so determined to get the D. She just wants me to sign and be done with it and save ourselves L fees. I told her i didnt want a divorce but if thats what she wanted she would have to go file. She said that i wasnt being civilized about the situation since i just didnt want to come to an agreement and sign the divorce. Am i been uncivilized ? I just told her to take me to court? Did i do wrong? She says im not doing anything for the girls sake, because i just wont settle this like civilized ppl.