Looked at the text messages a bit further. H said that she texted him about work stuff & he told her not to text him on his personal phone (at the end of the 8 messages, he said... because I asked why there would be 8 if he told her not to text him). Well looking at the texts closer I see that he texted her once in the morning. Then she texted him an hour later. Then he texted her 6 more times after that. She did not text him any more than the initial one time responding to his first text!! And the last text he sent was a multimedia text... so could be a picture, video, or a simple smiley face.
But ugh. He did lie. He said she was texting him about work stuff. But apparently he was texting her.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15