Photoka, wasn't honest about logistics, regarding age have a little bit of time before 40 but I agree, the thinness feels good physically and mentally. In my case I think that it's really the sleep deprivation that contributes to weight gain. At this point I really can't lose any more weight or it won't look good but building up some more muscle is my goal.

Funny thing is I was getting jealous of all the girls I work with and my friends that have a little extra weight, thinking "sigh...they must be really happy"

Red cable knit sweater dress sounds nice! Wear it out for drinks! Love the high boots as well. Then you don't have to worry about pale legs (that's me too!). I'm on a quest to find one for remaining fall season to wear on my next night out. Gonna check Nordstrom and victoria secret websites later (although with VS sometimes the quality of the clothes is weird) I also love the look of wrap around dresses! But feel the sweater quality makes it more casual? (Yay! I feel like I'm in my early 20s having discussions like this!)


Me: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
Physically Separated 7/2015