You can do things together at kids activities, but you are letting her cake eat by doing family things. She needs to feel the guilt for what she did to the family.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15