Thank you Cadet.

I am reading this and understanding a lot.

So, I have managed to get some information about practical things (mortgage, savings etc).

I think I can get some free legal advice too, about the house. It was mine when he moved in, and it's only my name that is on the title deeds (he's too disinterested/lazy to deal with the practicalities in life. It's me that runs everything on that front).

I need to find out if he is entitled to anything (like access to my house), as we are married and he has been supporting me.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017