Before I, as your friend, could ever support you giving her a kidney I'd want you to be 100% super sure she isn't (and wasn't) having an affair on you.
They are divorced so she can't be having an affair, it is simply a new relationship at this point. My 2 cents but I don't see Mahhhty contemplating this huge decision and then changing his mind based on her relationship status. Maybe I'm wrong...
Hey Mahhhty, how's it going? How did D's birthday party go? Anything new in Mahhhty land?
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since