So, here's the big secret I wanted to tell you....just let it unfold. It will unfold how it should. At some point, you will just know what it is you want.
If you still have questions, and you should...you aren't there yet.
You know when you are waiting for something really badly? You watch closely hoping to see what you want to see and it seems like nothing is happening? Then it seems to take even longer? Yea, this is like that.
Step away from day to day analyzing. Step away from the mindreading and all the rest...and just let it unfold.
She is working through things. Trust me on that.
You will know when you cant wait any longer...you aren't there yet...so its best to just keep going.
Try to remember how far YOU have come. Remember that you are still a work in progress. Keep working on you. Doing your thing. Making memories with your son. Leave her to bake some more.
I will tell you that she is watching you, too. She sees and feels the way you are taking everything all in. What you want her to see is the loving, confident, strong man you have become.
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