Last night after kids were in bed I read for a bit in my room. Normally I would be downstairs with W watching a bit of TV for an hour or two then bed.
As I read in bed it felt like I was blanking her so I decided to go downstairs and read in the room instead of watching TV. She greeted me cordially enough.
Reading this part of your post, isittoolate, just reminded me of my DBing between January and June, when my STBXW and I reconciled briefly. I would go to bed to read since I felt more comfortable alone than in a room with her not having anything to say. But, unlike you, I would stay there. After some time I started noticing that W would come to the bedroom to talk about nothing, so she was the one having to initiate the talking. After a while the mood got better and I started staying in the living room. Soon after we started watching TV series together. Why don't you try and go to bed earlier two or three times and see what happens? But this time stay there.
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15
