Hi pho, interesting weekend for both of us. I do feel at this time we are at the same spot in our DB/marriage.
First off, I do not think it's TMI because it is a very useful indicator/barometer. It said something on your honeymoon and it says something now. It indicates the health of the marriage and where the two spouses are within the marriage. I would suggest not offering yourself to him. Let him initiate the celebration of love. That doesn't mean you can't get his attention through words, actions or dress.
My wife can be trying but I ain't buying. She spoke to me this morning again. Not much but more then lately. I will validate with a PMA. She has to see my changes are real and the inverse is also true. I need to see her wake up out of this trance she is in and begin to act like a partner.
Marriage is work. A good marriage is hard work. I want a good marriage. We deserve it, so do our spouses. Be well
