Mutatio, this is exactly my experience too, I was going to post something similar this morning but I will just take the A-team advice since it applies so well to my situation as well. Funny how our journeys are so similar, even with regards to the timeframe.
About a week ago I posted that H was showing signs of his former self and I was starting to think he was kind of "Ick". He is not as smart, funny, sweet, etc as I had remembered him being. I still love him, but I am not feeling the way I used to.
Yesterday H came into the kitchen where I was hanging out with the boys and made a joke. I don't think I've heard him make a joke in a year. He stayed in our bed for the entire night for 3 nights in a row now. (no sex. is that tmi?)
He is still a "pod person" so I am keeping my expectations low and as much as I want to interact with him, at the same time I really don't.
We need to keep the focus on ourselves, it would be so easy to fall into the "mind reading" trap right now because we are seeing glimpses of the spouses we used to know, but they are not back yet, so we are still dealing with a lot of unknown variables.
Hang in there, my friend. I think we might be success stories soon.
