Hi Mleigh- I have to laugh at your "forced fake family time" comment. It makes me want to get punch cards and a machine so I can "clock in and out." Remember Ralph E. Wolf and Sam Sheepdog from Looney Tunes? They had that skit where they punched in and did the same nonsense, then punched out and said see you tomorrow for the same. Maybe I should get one of those machines and install it by my front door!!!

I haven't read your thread from the start and without reading back, I am curious if your H spewed at you earlier on? Or no?

It is SO odd that clearly there is a connection and bond (right down to wearing matching shirts) and yet he fights it. When you really step back from it you see that they sure do waste a lot of time working so feverishly to make themselves happy. When you apply one or two brain cells to thinking about it you can see the things they are trying cannot possibly make a person happy internally.

Glad you had fun on Halloween--sounds fun!


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced