Yr sitch sounds similar to mine. Is there any EA/PA involved?
Is she a WAW or a WW. I know they are similar but if EA then tough love is required.
Im struggling as well to get the right balance re: housework and paying for stuff and how to change the dynamic so she doesnt treat me like a BFF, whilst going about her social life without me and treating me like a glorified babysitter.
She was away for much of the weekend partying until 4am on Friday and then out all night Saturday. I did most of the housework and feeding the boys all weekend. This morning She has stacked some pots and pans (too big for dishwasher) next to the sink. Normally I would wash them by hand - not today. She put some laundry on and normally i would hang it out - not today. Tonight we would normally watch Walking Dead - not today.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
