hey Cali,

Like you I am struggling with watching the grass grow. It takes a lot or patience and the realization that you can't do anything to speed it up. A little over a 2year ago I was dealing with an attempted suicide and helping my three daughters deal with it. No communication after that through the divorce. Then three months later the door started to open. Like you I have had to stand back and watch her process through things. We are now communicating almost daily and she is sharing things that are going on in her life. We have had a few families thing together and go for ice cream most Sundays to talk. I too wonder if I want to continue at times. I too question what I am doing. Then I think back to all that has gone on and how far she has come and decide to give it more time. Take some time to reflect on where you were and where you are now. Even though she has a way to go you may be surprised at how far it has already come.


Twisting on Life's Rope
Me53
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BD 2-2013
D final 1-2015
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