Thank you for that Flight. I really appreciate everything you've said.

He can be quite stubborn anyway, and get really defensive when he knows he's being a ****. I've seen that plenty times over the 18 years we've been together, in all sorts of different scenarios (including a really bad work related one eighteen months ago, which I helped him get out of).


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017