i am getting the urge to send a message to the other guy my wife keeps messaging and had a emotional affair with. I just want to let him know that in the past i hated him without knowing him, i hated the fact that he had the nerve to message and look for my wife knowing she was now married. What kind of person are you? I just want him to know that he was like a pimple in someones face. He would always appear the best times. Why didnt he mind his own business and just leave my family alone? didnt he see we had a marriage going on and 2 beautiful daughters ? why did he want to message her knowing damn well i wouldnt approve. I just want him to know that in past i hated him. But i have grown so much these 2 months that i forgive him. I want him to know that it was actually my fault this kept going. Because i never had selfrespect. I want him to know that i no longer hate him , but i wish him nothing but the best without knowing him.


Me:26 WW:26
RELATIONSHIP - 5 YRS
MARRIED-1YR 11months
BD:9/14/2015
divorce filed 1/6/15
DAUGHTER- 3YRS
DAUGHTER - 1yr