I understood from cadet that she has a depression so I try and be supportive but keep a distance. Sometimes she will send a message about an activity she did or a meal she did for our son. Sometimes she will end the message with a kiss or some other icon and others none.
She only gives me a peck when I leave for a trip when I come back contact from her is zero.
We are no where near the ily stage even though we have been on a few trips together. If I get too close to a female friend or colleague she thinks I am sleeping with her.
I am not needy of her, I encourage her to gal and without pressuring her. The only time I flex muscle is if she oversteps any boundary I have or something that could present a problem for us or if she forgets something important. Lately she forgets a lot and just concentrates on going to the gim.
Things have improved and gotten warmer but we are still not a couple and I am growing tired of waiting.
Tbh I wonder if I have a depressed wife, wayward or am going from a ww to a ssm.
I get on with my life and only repeat actions or words that she says so as to not bring it up a level and create an awkward situation.
I have set a date anyway. If by Jan 2016 we are still in the peck on the lips when I leave then I will evaluate and if I don't see things improving will call it quits.
