Jpeg, if it's any consolation, I get much of the same treatment from H. He's unable to face the fact it's his actions the kids are angry about; therefore, it must be my fault the kids are disgusted with him. H cannot recognise the truth - it goes against his selfish instincts. He's right. Anyone who doesn't agree is wrong. H is a victim at all times.
The kids are sick of it all. I feel so badly for them.
By the way, I wouldn't leave my house for H. He walked away. You don't owe him anything. I wouldn't trust my H unsupervised for one second. OW need not even think of coming near the house. Have her arrested for trespassing if she does, but make sure he knows she is unwelcome first.
