Still riding the waves

[BrightFuture]

Hey, mleigh4, how did it go with after the trick or treating yesterday? Did you go out with your friend?

I’ve been following your updates. You sound good. One thing that you mention once in a while resonates with me. When you mention that your H actually might like the way his life is and has no plans to ever change it, you get upset. You think that you are detaching nicely and moving on. You don’t like the way things are, you are tired of this situation and this limbo… And then this thought about H comes… I’ve been going through the same thing for a while now. I don’t have any advice here, since I’ve been trying to figure it out myself. All I can say is that I absolutely admire your determination and your courage to keep pushing through this.

Holidays bring out lots of emotions not only for us, but also for the MLCers. From now until March 17th, there will be a lot of touch and goes for many of the posters and there will also be some false reconciliations along the way too. It happens every year because many people want that comfort of being home w/family and they miss the traditions, but once the Bunny has poked his head out and the Easter Parade is over, many of the reconciliations go up in smoke.

Job, interesting observation. I don’t think I had an increase of touch and goes during the holidays before, so I’m not expecting it this year either. On the opposite, I think my H is going to dig deeper into the tunnel, LOL.