Hi, vge, I’m so sorry to hear that it continues to be a battle when it comes to your xh. I just could not believe what I was reading in your update. How people could be so cruel and senseless. I agree with Lou, if he ever is going to wake up, it is going to be brutal. He got himself in such a mess. I can’t remember how old your children are. Do any of them have a say in visitation with their dad?
On the other side, I’m so happy to hear that the chemo is working. You are going to make it! You are a strong woman and your kids need you. I second kml on the insurance thing. You might qualify for medicade or subsidy. Maybe look up a medical insurance agent in your area. They know about the plans and can help you with selecting one. They should also be familiar with how to work though the Exchange website (Obamacare) and will help you to establish an account.
Sending you much love and hugs.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state