Well haven't been on for a while. Just wanted to check in with everyone, not much has changed. It's 4 days shy of 4 month mark. We don't talk unless it's about D4 . Stbx has new BF who she brings for every drop off and pick up for the last few months. There was times where we were texting back and fourth but ended quickly. She does send me pictures and stuff of D4 every other day. But really not very nice toward me still even though I never say anything mean toward her. When I found out her new BF had the same name as me lol it was weird and likes the same sports teams As me etc just a weird situation. Idk I have pretty much lost all hope for saving what was. I'm just doing me now working/ gym/ and trying to be the best dad I can. I just feel hurt by all of this. Court is soon mediation in 2 days. Oh and on a side note I found out she's telling friends that I was the one having an affair lol what a lie, I guess so she feels better for what she's doing.