She Left, not as unsure (2)

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Hi havhope, well firstly apply the hour rule. Don't respond just yet....get yourself busy with something else and then respond to her.

Maybe let her lead here...perhaps just a little question - 'what did you have in mind?'

Wait until she comes back to you...not too eager..If she makes a specific suggestion, you can always post here and get some input before you respond.

Don't make yourself too available to her - and certainly don't move plans you already had..

If she doesn't respond, just leave it and move forward - don't raise it again with her.

Remember, you're a pretty cool and busy guy who is moving forward with his own life...

Best of luck