Vanilla,

Just looked up the common cognitive distortions. I have so many!
Control fallacy, fallacy of fairness,fallacy of change ( sadly only with my husband), filtering, catastrophising, jumping to conclusions, almost everything!

These are things I really need to address. I always felt like they were just apart of me. I never thought about how unhealthy these issues are to myself and relationships.

Can you really change these thought patterns? I guess you have to recognize them and then be able to take control of your thoughts and transfer.


Me: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
Physically Separated 7/2015