Thank you.

I have a specific question, and then I'll think about goals.

So, my specific question is this...

His mother has some money to give me. She actually texted me a few hours after the texted me a week ago saying he thought it was best if we separated. She was hoping to arrange a time to meet up that evening to give me the money.

I reckon he may have told her, and wanted to check out how I was reacting?

Anyway, I was genuinely busy with work, so I missed her text and would have been back too late to meet her.

I texted her to ask if she could post me a cheque, and she has suggested meeting this evening and giving it to me in person.

So, do I go along, meet her and GAL? Or do I make reference to his affairs and say he is just doing what he wants to do and that is up to him (with absolutely no trace of bitterness in my voice)?


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017