6 months in the storm

[beckyb]

EP, My situation has gone very fast too and H said he wanted out quickly. However he is not moving things along. I am not pushing. I think I have at least 3 more months. That's 3 more months for me to adjust to my new reality and 3 more months to DB. I am also prepared for him to start pushing at any time.

I know the "in between" is terrible. My only advise is don't push, but to start to frame your thinking and live your life as is you were already divorced. If something else happens it will be a blessing.