My personal goals are advancing quite well after 4 days:

14. I will take care of myself with regard to sleep and reduce my sleeping pills. Half Dose
15. I will maintain my present weight and not lose anymore. Weight stable
16. I will shave each and every day  Done
17. I will get a new Hairstyle? 
18. I might get some Botox? (If W can have it so can I!) Booked
19. I will do spontaneous act of kindness to friend, neighbour or stranger as opportunities arise.
20. I will assert myself physically through open  body language, stand tall, eye contact, face W, listen, don't interrupt, validate. Have started ok
21. I will look to update my wardrobe - not urgent. One item bought
22. I will read NMMNG, Codependent No More and Hold on to your NUTS. Halfway through NMMNG

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16