Originally Posted By: focus22
Does that sound harsh?


Not even a little. From this point forward, when something happens stop and see how it will benefit you. It is so hard, but you have to turn the focus on you now. You will find it so, so hard, but you have to.

Lets start by gathering 2 or three personal goals to help you. Goals that will be only for you to make you happy.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!