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[Zues126]

I am clearly right, he is clearly wrong. He will never learn if everyone keeps helping him. He HAS to do this on his own.

I want more than anything for him to step up and be a man.

He is a man. He is just not the way you would build a man. Do you want a relationship with a real man? Or do you want to end that relationship by trying to mold him into someone he's not?

Just be careful Mona. Acting like your man he's not a man in your eyes will be the end of the R. If you want to continue an R then accept and approve of him as he is, with no scorecard, quirks and all. If you support your man he'll grow in his own ways at his own pace. More importantly he doesn't need to grow to be a good man. You need to grow realize he already is.