Originally Posted By: Ancaire
I've been told not to engage, because it would be easy to have me thrown in jail again. How is this fair?


Wrong question to ask.

Of course you wont engage because his words cant reach you any more. He can stand there and yell all he wants. Besides, have you seen puppies... they are adorable.

He is upset. His kids saw what he did not want them to see. You happen to be the person he was a jerk to, but if you step back, he was a jerk, his kids saw it, and he did not want them to. He can try and turn this on you all he wants, but every one... except him... sees the truth.

You also wont engage because you have the skill, the confidence and the support to rise way above any craziness. Shake your head and tell yourself how you are focusing on you. Repeat your goals. Look at ANYTHING that went positive today that could have been awful.

One more time:
...you have the skill, the confidence and the support to rise way above any craziness


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!