I guess I should begin with yesterday. D17 agreed to go with us for my son's last trick or treating and I would take her to the party after S11 was done. She came, but instead decided to stay at my moms house and pass out candy.
My criminal sister was there, waiting around the block because when you are released from jail you are not allowed near your victims and she burglarized a few homes on my mom's street.
Good news, I did not punch her. Yes, you can applause...
Like I said, she has 100000000 kids. All different ages. She kept yelling at my S to go slow to match the speed of her youngest... Her D was telling her to just have her slow ones skip some houses to keep up.
I was getting so ticked off, but my S was having fun with his cousins, so again, I did not punch her....
I was wearing black heeled boots, so after 40 minutes of my sister's nonsense and walking in my heels, I went back to my mom's house and left S11 with his cousins.
I have to say that my detaching skills must be getting better because I completely forgot jerk face would be there. He did not go out with his S for the last ToT.
If MWD was beside me whispering in my ear the night could not have gone better. I brought my baby (puppy) with me. I just taught her how to play peek-a-boo. She takes her little paws and covers her little eyes. (raise you hand if you are choked up, because it is that freakin cute.)
My nephew was at the house with D17 and jerk face. He loves the heck out of me and my baby. He is always so excited to see the new tricks I taught her. We were all sitting in the living room. and me and my nephew were having a blast with the dog. Belly laughing and having so much fun. I was not mean to H, but I was far from nervous. I just ignored him almost completely.
My D17 asked him to drive her to the party. He refused.
I left and drove her to the party.
I came back and my S was done. So I helped my S give jerk face a small part of the candy. I called my S honey a alot because I was slightly irritated H would not drive D. My use of honey was EXACTLY the same inflection and way i used the same word on him when we were together. Just saying it hit me, so I know it jolted jerk face.
I had promised S I would take him to dinner, but I had a halloween party to go to. So, in my H's hearing I asked S if we could do our diner date another night because I was late for a party.
Then we left and I did not think of H anymore. I dropped S off at home and made my way to my costume party.
Sidenote*** Not ONE person knew what the TARDIS was... But the dress looked real nice on me
Now the beginning of my crappyness.
My dearest mom turns to me and drops a bomb. "H is not moving out yet. apparently he has some bills he has to pay off before he can move."
So I am texting my D's telling them to cancel the dinner party I set up for Tuesday. Smiling, because I am at a party and I am not gonna get angry here.
I tell some jokes with the crowd and go dance my tush off and I feel so much better.
I get my D from her party and we go to bed. Life is ok.
We go to S's last soccer game, and he scored his first goal ever! H did not show. Whatever, no big deal.
I take the kids to get new school shoes and winter coats. I totally splurged and bought my puppy a Steeler's jersey!
I make a payment on the car and we go eat. PMA still high, but the reality of me not moving is starting to bring me down.
At some point during the day my H texts me. I ignore him and take a nap.
(due to length, I am breaking this into 2 posts).
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
