I am in the middle with this idea. D means they broke their vows. I dont believe it's just a piece of paper. That marriage was a promise that through better or worse you would stand by each other no matter what. I think once i get my D , I will give up on her and just really focus on me. But thats just my point of view. Who knows maybe after i get my D my wife will realize " hey i had it pretty good what did i just do?" Or maybe she will stay with the fact that " it was just never meant to be and the feeling of wanting to come back are just going to be temporary. Who knows.
