The house is a mess. not sure if I should clean it up or not. But doesn't seem right W is out at a party and I am expected to clean up and look after the kids before her Mom arrives. That was not in the note but I know that is what is expected. I think I will do some light cleaning and leave enough for my W to clean up.
What would happen if you did not do what's expected?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!