Nice guys finish last not because that's what life does to them, but that's what they do to themselves. You are responsible for you, no one else. So you acknowledge your a nice guy, read the book "No More Mr Nice Guy" and fix it. You had so many posts in your first thread saying to read the book, you said your a nice guy, you even said ...
Originally Posted By: angel r
thank you all for the advise, it means a lot. After reading every single post ...


so, have you read the book(NMMNG)? Did you read the book for this website?

You read the advice on here but don't follow most of it. So many posts have wanted you to work on you and the only thing you ever mention is how you are standing up for yourself and getting closer to the lord. Fine, good things to do. Now, what about everything else? You have advice of what to do to fix you but you ignore posts of things you don't want to hear.

All you really want right now is the quickest way to get your W back and that is the surefire way to lose her forever.

"nice guys" usually think there being nice but can be complete assholes when they don't get their way. I would know, I was one. They don't even see when their being the [censored] all the time because they justify it in their own heads without caring how it comes across.

I have the perfect 180 for you that could save your M. Take the advice your getting on the forum and actually use it to work on you. You seem to ignore what people are telling you and one day you will regret you had the chance to turn things around now but chose to stay stuck in your old mind.

Last edited by Fogg; 10/31/15 07:13 PM.
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